UPDATE:::: Im headed back to KAF ,Afganistan the first of April.I hope some of you will contact me while im there .It would be nice to meet some people there .MSG me and ill get back to you.Im also hoping i can view this site while im there :))) I think this is the hardest part of this whole process other than finding "real" people out there. Describing what you desire, need and talking about yourself isn't always easy but here goes. I観 married to the love of my life. My wife and are in a open marriage and I have been given her permission and blessing to find a playmate or to go out and play with cpls or singles. We do not hide anything from each other and she will be informed of the situation and who im playing with (certain details will be kept private). You relationship status does not concern me. Body type, shape and race doesn't matter. We are meeting for the same purpose and thats to have fun. I'm looking for a woman that is confident in her looks and well grounded, sensual and isn't afraid to tell her man what her wants and needs are. I love a woman or cpl that can make me laugh and don't take life too seriously. I'm looking for a woman or cpl that is comfortable sitting in front of the TV watching hockey/movie or going out for an evening of fun or staying home for the indoor naughty game kind of fun. I観 not looking for head gamers or "rescue me" fantasies. I am VERY straight forward and not afraid to say what旧 on my mind. I have a great sence of humour and love to laugh. I'm a very honest per and i DO NOT judge people. Im very easy going and will go with the flow or what ever comes along! I have been in the lifestyle (swinging) for over 13 years and know what the term discretion means and what the rules are. I retired from the military after 25 years and know how to properly treat a lady and do have manners (I観 well trained lol). I love the outdoors and so should you. Taking my out for air is a regular activity of mine and would love to have someone to share that with before/after our inside fun! Making new friends is always nice. Don«æ be afraid to contact me to say hello. I hope we can chat soon

My Ideal Person Im looking for someone that is self confident and has a great sence of humour.I'm also looking for someone that is willing to try new things and expariment,Hang out or have some hot sweaty fun.
If you want to play and have a good time contact me.
If you just want to have a coffee thats great too.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
On fantasy i do have is to have me coming home and having a woman meet me at the door.She will be on her knees ready to service me till im done.Then we fuck all night long only taking breaks to eat and drink something

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
xena mmmmmmm i need to say no more

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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