To be blunt: I will lick your pussy and ass until you can't stand it anymore. But you MUST send me a message first! A wink, flirt, view, or hotlist won't do it. I almost NEVER cum! But I can keep it up for you, which means I can go for hours. If you can't handle more than 3 hours, I'll be disappointed. I want to be able to take my time enjoying your body and pleasing you. Making me cum is a long-term project. That's been an issue since I lost my virginity when I was somewhat thin, also. Update: I am now "420 friendly." I've found that it enhances sex about 10-fold. And it makes it easier for me to have an orgasm. I'm NOT into bodily waste. I don't want anything that's most commonly flushed down a toilet to be a part of a sex act of which I'm involved. I don't know what guys are saying on this website, but I'm not into animals, either. It's unlikely I'll ever pay for this website again. So please make contact with me if you want me to make contact with you. I see some very attractive women looking and flirting with me. Send me an e-mail if you're real, please. Winks and hot lists are flattering, but they won't inspire me to subscribe again. I'm not and have never been married. I'm sick of one-night/day-stands. I'm mainly interested in monogamous sex with 1 partner, who likewise only wants to be with 1 person. A relationship is my ultimate goal, though. Sexually, I'm a giver. I'm very difficult to please, so I focus on my partner's pleasure. I have to "get used to" someone before I'll cum, so you shouldn't expect that the first time we're together, or even the first few times. I usually don't have a difficult time keeping it up for you, though. I enjoy giving and receiving oral sex. I love making a woman orgasm. It's one of the main things that turns me on. But I can usually tell when someone is faking it, so please don't do that. That will ruin everything. I'm not a big fan of "cyber sex," though I can be persuaded. I have a camera, and all. The only kind of sex videos I like looking at are amateur videos of women actually having sex or masturbating and not just putting on a show and exaggerating everything. So no, I don't like porn. Another thing that really, really turns me off about porn is all the fake tits and cosmetic alterations. I like natural. If your tits sag, great! I like them like that. Most of the iconic and typical things most people think are "sexy" don't do anything for me. I do like lingerie, though. I like black lace and see-through attire. I like certain kinds of bras, panties, corsets, nighties, and camisoles. I'm not so much into leather, chains, whips, or anything like that. I guess I like soft and subtle. I do have an "ass fetish," and have been known to give analingus, if you like that. I can give oral sex for probably close to an hour straight, especially if I'm really turned-on. I enjoy giving oral sex, and I know a lot of women have been sadly under-fulfilled in this department.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman loves sex. She is not afraid of any part of her body or mine. She would never DREAM of faking an orgasm, because that is unforgivably wrong. She loves to receive pleasure as much as give it. She's STD-free.

I am perfect for women who are used to men cumming too quickly, or not being very motivated to reciprocate sexual pleasure. While it's true, my inability to have an orgasm has caused a number of women I've been with to become self-conscious, I do still get a LOT of pleasure from sex. I can't remember the last time I had sex and had a good old fashioned orgasm during intercourse. I think it was 2005? And before that 2000 or 2001? So it CAN happen. It just doesn't usually happen, and very rarely the first time. So no, I'm not bullshitting about this. I can't even get myself off with masturbation when I'm with someone new. When I'm turned on, my cock stays hard. If you want to cum, cum hard, and cum several times, I can probably make this happen for you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Doors, Prince, The Police, Atlanta Rhythm Section,
Steely Dan, Juno Reactor, Chopin, Rachmaninov

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't think it's realistic to fantacize about
celebrities, but I have had many dreams about doing it with
Madonna.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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