What am I here for? I know what I want in life, but I'm not sure if it exists. I want someone I'm comfortable being myself around. I know it's a cliche but I still haven't found anyone that's even come close yet. I can play the game, and I can appeal to people, but I've never felt satisfied. Sex is great. It's literally the best thing in life. But I'd love to find someone that could make me think twice about that. I want to experience a mental connection that could make me feel the way that great sex feels. I want someone who is a real person, an independent person, a beautiful soul who can make me discover a new side of myself... Someone who I can talk, laugh, and connect with. However I don't want to give the impression that I'm on here in search of "the one". Perhaps I'll find her here, perhaps not. Perhaps not anywhere.... I'm here simply to add to my collection of experiences and connections. The beautiful thing about people is that everyone is different, and no two relationships are the same. Some people aren't looking to make a deep emotional connection. For some people, sex is just sex. On the other hand, some people need to feel the emotional connection, and associate it hand in hand with sex. As for me, I ebb and flow. I adapt to every person and I enjoy studying the small differences that make us all unique.

My Ideal Person I'm probably going to sound pretty typical here but I do think this part is necessary. Here are some of the qualities (physical and not) that I adore:

-Good sense of humor
-Doesn't take herself too seriously
-Doesn't take me too seriously
-Open minded
-Understanding
-Independent
-Physically fit

I should also say that I'm 5'7". Some women prefer taller men, which is fine. I've never been with a woman taller than me before but I'd be open to it.

I'm also open to age gaps... I've been with women over 20 years my elder and it's truly a magical experience.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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